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The dilemma of #Mychoice

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India’s elite is once again getting excited about a video. This time it is a 2-minute video starring Bollywood actress Deepika Padukone and 98 other women including famous names like Director Zoya Akhtar and actress Nimrat Kaur. Padukone’s video ‘My Choice’ is the latest in the series of the Vogue Empower campaign that aims to raise awareness about women’s rights in the country.

The movement to empower India’s women has taken center-stage since the Nirbhaya rape case in December 2012. Since then an increasing number of urban women are reporting sexual harassment. The country’s media has taken a special interest in the issue allotting primetime to talk-shows and special format programs with experts on the Panel debating the urgent needs of the women in the country. Hashtags like #women #empowerment #feminism are trending topics on Twitter and the young and old are participating actively in the debate. While all this is fine, my problem is that from where I sit, I see a worrying trend emerging.

I notice that a growing section of urban women now resort to mob-lynching to bring down what they term ‘perverts’ and a growing number of men is deeply offended by women who show a blatant disregard for tradition. A war is on and there is a lot of debate going back and forth with little result. We have managed to establish the fact that patriarchy is deeply entrenched in the society and something needs to be done about it. Unfortunately, in the course of the last two years, many have lost sight of the goals that were pledged after the horrific incident came to light. The aim of the outcry was to empower women by giving them more security and by raising awareness among men to them with respect. The goal was to empower women to be stronger women; the goal was not to empower women to become like men, the very kind we despise for asserting their authority and treating women with disrespect.

Padukone’s video is an example of how the debate on women’s empowerment has been sidetracked. Vogue India’s collaboration with top-notch directors starring a gorgeous Bollywood actress could have been a useful platform to engage the general public and raise awareness. Instead they chose to make a mockery of the sacred institution of marriage, they chose to undermine the torment that overweight women are subjected to, they chose to disregard the stigmatization suffered by the LGBT and called the video #Mychoice.

#Mychoice tilts in favour of this video below made by Director Ankur Poddar as a response to the Vogue video.

The rest dear reader is your choice. Let me know what you think in the comments section below.

Author: Roma Rajpal

Editor: Marjory Linardy

Roma Rajpal Weiß is an Indian Blogger and Journalist and can be followed @romarajpal



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01.04.2015 | 13:25