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Reader’s blog: the perfect relationship


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Is there a perfect relationship between men and women in this world? Women Talk Online reader Grace Faith gives us some tips!

To answer this question we need to find out what kind of perfection men and women want to achieve. If we talk about an easy way out, we will never find the answer. We need to ask ourselves, what kind of a relationship we would like to have, something just for fun, to fill our free time, or do we want to have a deeper and more truthful relationship which could even last a lifetime. Do we want a best friend or do we want to get married?

I believe men and women need to have a goal for the relationship and both should be committed towards building it. Men and women also need to honor each other. They can be partners, by working together, playing their roles within the marriage and by supporting each other. Both men and women have their strengths and weaknesses.  For example, men usually work more to fulfill family needs and women take care of their families, but both could agree on how much responsibility they could share.

If the women want to build career, men need to support, although women need to realized their responsibility to take care the family is the number one. Men need to stop thinking about their women cleaning up and cooking for them. They need to build relationships with women who can love them.

If men and women can apply these tips to their relationships, they will be happy.

Author: Grace Faith

Editor: Manasi Gopalakrishnan

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15.08.2014 | 15:25